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How to stop worrying and start living.

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I had this topic in my mind for years either I wanted to think or write on it. Recently, I read the book by Dale Carnegie which has a same title as my blog. It has given some of the best magical formulas to achieve complete peace of mind in any condition. I can't type all of them here due to copyright issue but I will share one of my favorite techniques here. For example, one of the methods Dale Carnegie explains, 1) we need to confront the worst situation and 2) accept the worst ever result we can think of it and 3rd) we need to work on improving the worst which we already have accepted. This is a simple but very powerful method we could follow in order to avoid going through some sleepless nights and manifesting diseases in body. If you are a worrier and always think about your problems or issues or any worry or fear is eating you up then this book is for you. I can bet after reading first 50-60 pages your 70% worries will be disappeared. There are some techniques i...

Law of attraction explained.

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This is a really interesting subject to write on! I was really thrilled when I seen "The Secret" for the first time and it was an amazing experience. I started feeling that I can get everything I want in my life without much of a trouble. But initially I did not get it correctly and had to rediscover and understand how it works?. If you’re like most people and me, you might have wanted to harness the "law of attraction" to boost your financial level, increase health and energy, or experience better personal relationships in your life. When “The Secret” first came out, a lot of people follow the guidelines it spoke of. For a while, they were real champions at it, they may have even created a vision board, done affirmations, and focused on the things that they wanted but then they just quit. They got discouraged.Why? Because the law of attraction is more than just focusing on what it is you want and then expecting results in a few weeks or a few months.  ...

Covid-19 Vaccination and after effects

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By now you must have read almost all available articles on Covid-19 vaccine. I am not going to repeate those things. 1) Whether I should go for it? 2) Is that actually worth to take it? 3) Will it harm in longer duration? If you are looking to get these questions' answer then you are wasting your time by reading this. As I am just sharing my experience after taking Covid-19 Vaccine. I got "Covishield Vaccine which is made by Oxford and Serum Institute of india. I was very much excited and determined to take my first Jab and got it in the predetermined slot too. I didn't feel anything but just a pinch and I was thinking hum "people are just making excuses that they were not well for couple of days, it pains a lot etc. I still waited for 30 min at the vaccination center, then I left for the home. I was still trying to check again and again if I started feeling anything like in movies we see; after taking such shots Hero will have a different body altogether ...

Corona's positive side effects.

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I don't deny that Corona has adverse affect on the human race and impacting all of us in a negative way. Though, there are lots of things I want to draw your attention to. In which it affected positively too.. believe it or not. Such as lower accident rates, pollution decreased to a significant level, people understood the importance of side income or multiple source of income is necessary, need to have own car, insurance policy's importance, family time, cooking is now a new hobby for all, can survive with limited food, minimalism, real picture of system, opportunities in politician, common men came forward to help etc. We will check each of them in the next paragraph.  Pollution and accident rate decreased: Carbon immersion has decreased due to lockdown and most of the people have used their vehicle minimum. It has helped to lower accident rates as well as increased good clean air and reduced the pollution. Some of the most polluted cities had excellent quality of air.  ...

Raising a child in a corona lifestyle.

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This is one of the biggest challenges people especially newly became parents are facing. How to raise children in such situation wherein they are not allowed to go out and play with other same age children; whole day, a week and in some cases a whole month they are inside of the house. Truly unexpected and cruel situation. No schools, no friends, not much new learning or sharing scope. Most of them are being addicted to mobile or TV sets.   If this continuous then the coming generation Will lack empathy and won't be able to learn lots of things which we have learnt in schools and from friends when we were at their ages. On the other hand people like me, a father of a daughter feeling a sigh of relief thinking, the girl child will stay in house so no issue or afraid of her security. I'd always wanted something like that but not at the cost of such a horrifying disease. But I am little less worried for my girl due to Covid situation. You might feel I'm being littl...

Blogging can be learned on our own or a coach required?

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I've heard lots of things about blogging and earning. Who doesn't want to earn extra I mean I will definitely. Now how one can earn by just writing blogs?. That's a good question and there are lots of self-made digital marketing gurus you'd find. But would recommend you to research on your own if you are getting fascinated by internet of things and its really your passion.   As these gurus will get you in their Webinars and ask you to join their classes. Most of them will do or would want to join but ask yourself if you are really going to keep extra time for this new learning? Are you really want to go in this field Do you really want to invest money and get value out of it or just impressed with webinar and want to join. These things really want your time and as you know most of us are not tech-savvy as its required basic knowledge of how website works, URL, normal.copy pasting though they will try to lure you stating you won't need any bas...

Work from Home is a blessing in disguise

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True, its a blessing for the families like us who recently became parents but living in a nuclear family.  My baby born in Sept 2019 and her mom and I both are working. We wanted to buy a home but also were confused whether to go for it or not as she was going to quit her job after baby and with one earning member buying a home and maintaining a decent life isn't a joke. But last year this month both of our companies offered working from home option and we were really happy  Reason 1 baby won't be alone as she was just 6 months older and the reason no 2 why we were happy as we cut down lots of expenses and were able to buy a house on loan obviously. Work from home has given us a great opportunity to handle our family in a great way. It has changed way of thinking, minimizes travelling cost and time. Now we enough time to complete work efficiently. On the other hand its saving huge amount of money for my company and they have option to think about their ...

Marriage Rules or way of life

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I have very bold thoughts on this  subject so advising you if you can't handle stop reading. People have given too much important to marriage than it deserves. Its a vast subject but want to touch main topic that 99.99% married people are unhappy for one or other reasons.   So, is it right to get married or not? Is this can be avoided? Yes or no What it feels as a wife or husband... why to get married is too important?? Why someone spend their whole life with someone? Just to have sex? Just to have baby and take care of them. According to me its a punishment parents want to give to their children as they are also going through same punishment. ( just to clear m very much happy with my marriage and baby cause we chose to get married and not forced to get married) But m talking about 99.99% people who were either forced by others or themselves.  There's no thumb rule to get married as you will have a time wherein you'd feel bad or can't tolerate your spouse...

life in corporate Jobs and Savings

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I don't know where to start?? But I am sure most of the employees would relate this with their current Job. What I wanted from job and what I am getting now. I started my first job with 8500rs Salary and I was very much happy and used to save. I am earning almost 10x more but can't save the amount which I used to save in my first job. I think we are very much financially illiterate which no one taught us in home or at school. I want my child learn how to manage money before she starts earning. Cause I now understand when you lack at financial literacy then how you'd suffer. Other people will tell you the something, you are working for 10 years what you have saves till now. No one will see that you helped at home,  you gave money for brother or sisters wedding.  Bought lots of appliances in house. So, would request the current generation to start saving before spending. After 5 to 6 years down the line you'd thank me. It's a real life incident...